Of course, losing your virginity is a big deal. But it’s an even bigger deal — a huge deal! — for other people, people who are not you, people who don’t have hymens.
When Jihadists martyr themselves and go to heaven, as many as 100 virgins will be waiting there for them as their just reward. In areas of Iraq and Syria controlled by ISIS, the now robust sex slave market values virgins most of all.
Even here in the supposedly secular United States, one of the Presidential candidates, Ted Cruz, once proposed a method to detect infidelity in which God should “give women a hymen that grows back every time she has intercourse with a different guy, because that will be a ‘visible sign’ of the breach of trust,” according to a recent newspaper story.
Putting all this in perspective is Therese Schecter’s documentary How to Lose Your Virginity, which takes a comedic and refreshing look at the ideologies and constructions that have shaped how female virginity is perceived:
https://tribecafilm.com/stories/stream-how-to-lose-your-virginity-documentary
JunkChuck said:
I slept with a virgin once: over-rated–but what should I have expected? We don’t get all worked up about flying on airplanes with pilots who’ve never flown before. The whole purity thing is more religious nonsense.
As for those 72 virgins waiting in heaven? I wouldn’t be in a rush if it were me.
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Sunita Sukhana said:
I think viginity is overrated. It really shouldn’t matter with how many people someone has or has not slept. The only thing that should matter is that this person makes you happy and enriches your life. I will check out the movie. Thanks for sharing
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Kitt Crescendo said:
I never could understand why my virginity was anyone else’s business, but you’re right. It was a big deal to more than me. First there were the guys who looked at cherry popping as some sort of coolness badge. Then there were the adults who wanted to pass judgment on the status of my “slutdom” based on hearsay. Never mind the ones who, when finding out I hadn’t lost mine at the ripe age of 12 (I’d deemed myself physically, mentally, and emotionally unprepared for the consequences), judged that something must be wrong with me.
Yeah, the jihadists and crazies have issues, but the virginity drama tends to start so much closer to home.
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timsbrannan said:
Count me in the virginity is overrated camp.
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Tim Brannan, The Other Side Blog
2015 A to Z of Vampires
http://theotherside.timsbrannan.com/
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