Does size matter? You bet. You know it does! Yes, sometimes, it’s so big, it hurts.
Yet soon it may hurt so good, as my body adapts to the huge invasion, often with the help of a petrochemical lubricant derived from what would otherwise become fossil fuels.
Should I then tell you about not only the length but also the thickness, and the way my hips move in response to his thrusts, the feel of his mouth all over my breasts, the involuntary moans erupting from my lips? So what if I’m an exhibitionist…what do you care? You’re not a voyageur.
But here’s what you should care about: whether I — not to mention the countless other reproductive bodies fucking at this very instant — are using birth control.
This is the huge size that really matters: the ever expanding, always greedy human population inflicting pain and destruction on the finite, tiny, cunt-like Planet Earth — a body that can not adapt so easily as mine to invasive bigness. Eros/Thanatos: life force as death force. And yet, as a Scientific American article puts it, exponential population growth “is the don’t-go-there zone of modern environmentalism and political discourse.”
Meanwhile, ideological fanatics attack Planned Parenthood, and We the People celebrate irresponsible “reality” stars like the Octomom and the Duggars’ “Nineteen Kids & Counting” — far more obscene than any pornographic display of my love life.
“If children were brought into the world by an act of pure reason alone, would the human race continue to exist?” famously asked the philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer in his 1850 essay titled On the Suffering of the World. “Would not a man rather have so much sympathy with the coming generation as to spare it the burden of existence?”
The world’s population in 1850 (when Schopenhauer wrote) was a bit more than 1 billion, which had been roughly steady-state for centuries. Now it’s 7 billion…and counting. Simultaneous with this exponential population growth has been the Industrial Revolution’s fossil-fueled economic growth. Per-capita consumption and per-capita carbon emissions go hand in hand. The poor Planet doesn’t stand a chance unless…unless….
Unless we all start fucking, not to make babies, but just for the fun of it.
The ever fewer babies who are then born into this world will thank us.
New Year’s Resolution:
To fuck like a bunny but not breed like one!
The Scholarly Slut 
Schopenhauer and porn. Goddam could you be any more perfect.
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And happy New Year to you, too!
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Serious Question. As a woman who owns her sexuality and is also obviously well read, will you be voting for Hilary Clinton?
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mais oui!
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No woman ever said to me, I wish that thing was a little smaller–but concerns over the capacity of condoms were fairly universal. That and a universal greedy smile. It is the babies we don’t want, you’re right about that. Until we do.
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“While most books on sex say that penis size doesn’t matter, there are two groups of people to whom it does matter. One group includes almost every male alive. The second group includes every woman who derives sexual pleasure from intercourse.”
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I echo Wilson, but surely size preference is an individual thing – come on lets get human and reasonable about this antiquated argument. 7.5 inches is perfect for me as i don’t want my prostate pulverised to oblivion, and girth, well i can’t be specific on that, not enough experience.
but yes it must be fun to have something substantial to get a grip of, it depends what you intend to do with it. most female perspectives is that you only have to shake and rub a cock to stimulate it. well forced orgasms are possible both ways, but it’s the mind that governs and sensuality or how a mind processes not the physique. if you know nothing about an individual other than how they grunt or just “harder, harder!” “no, softer, softer!” then you’re unlikely to be having the most enjoyable sex.
people vary and prefer various types. any attempt to stipulate a rule is pure fantasy
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i saw a video where a Fem Dom was ‘teaching’ her sub Xdresser how to ‘satisfy’ a man. when it came to masturbating, she said “now pull on that thing, that’s right, imagine you’re pulling all that cum out of there.” that shows she knows nothing of anatomy or how to satisfy a man. and in my experience this is common amongst women. as it the stipulation that a tighter hole is more satisfying than a more generous one. i had a partner that had once had a caesarian section and part of her labia removed during childbirth – we made love everywhere and on one occasion for 12 hours, without stopping for breath and both climaxed many times. if i can impart one thing to the many ignorant women out there that do not take time to understand the male physique it would be – PUSH NOT PULL – what do you think is happening with each entry to a vagina? and yes – those of you wondering about a tuck – sloppy is fabulous to some. i prefer it. as for bi males, i wouldn’t worry too much about it, there are ways and means and someone out there. and yes, some women and men do prefer smaller penises.
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But Joy, whatever your size and preference – i am in love with you xx
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That’s all I want to hear, to know that I am loved/desired…making your “size,” whatever it is, absolutely perfect!
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As usual Joy, you have hit the nail right on the head 😉
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Thanks!
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All of the world’s population growth is now coming from three areas: India, Africa, and the Muslim countries. They share the common characteristic that women often are not educated, and generally do not have access to birth control and reproductive freedom.
The rest of the world is bearing children at below the replacement rate of 2.1 births per woman. Even countries that once had high birth rates like Brazil or Vietnam.
Educating women (as girls in childhood) and giving them the right and ability to control their reproduction will lead to a stable and perhaps declining population. That is the topic we need to be discussing… particularly in India, Africa and the Muslim countries.
The few women in other countries who wish to have larger families are not the source of the population growth, and we should give all women reproductive freedom.
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You’ve got it exactly right. Historically, keeping women pregnant was just another form of oppression. Education and women’s rights are the key.
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