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#BOAW2015, #GirlBoner, Commando, hair, hot or not, leggings, male gaze, POU
Who cares about my Commando thong? What I really want to know: Do you like my hair?
POU? Pretty or Ugly, am I? Hot or Not?
Girls just old enough to know how to post to YouTube create video selfies posing that question. Often the responses are so downright cruel as to cause possibly permanent damage to a young girl’s budding identity.
As we get older, the question — so often asked, it’s become cliche — morphs into: Do you like my hair?
But deep down in the nether regions of our brains, so deep we’re not even consciously aware, those questions are ultimately just coded, sublimated, polite renditions of a much more basic, even base, question. And if you’re truly honest, you must acknowledge that it is the only relevant question. And that question is:
Do you find me fuckable…or not?
Just asking the question makes me feel flushed, wet, ready, and willing — but, most of all, wanting — to be made love to…ravished…and more….
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The Scholarly Slut 
I think you’ve kind of nailed the human condition as it is now . Anyone who lives in the first world has their base needs met, so the only thing left is how do we continue as a species which is determined by the question of “do you think im fuckable “
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We’re brilliant, you and I, aren’t we?
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Well lets not go sucking each others dicks yet. There’s a lot more issues to solve. But yeah were on the right course.
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sorry for being man and but i just adore that photo of you xx
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but sorry @ wilson – and what planet are you on again, or was that sardonic? touche’ if so.
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The online bullying you mentioned is so heartbreaking… There’s so much more to all of us than our looks and bodies, and so many problems when we’re shunned or misled.
Speaking up about the issues is so key for making positive change. Thanks for joining the fest!
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I agree with August. The online bullying causes so much harm, in some cases irreversible. Speaking up and speaking out is such a positive way to turn it around.
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It breaks my heart when people dehumanize themselves all the way down to that one base question…. “Am I fuckable or not?”
The realist in me knows that’s the case, more often than not…. Because somehow self worth gets tangled into whether or not we’re sexually attractive. But the idealist in me won’t let go of the thought that people will know and realize that the biggest sexual organ we have is our brains, and seduction/passion starts with the mind.
Bullying sucks. Online or otherwise. And the reality is also that looking fuckable and being fuckable are often two very different animals. Seduce a mind and you’ll find the most pleasurable fuck you’ve ever experienced… Well, that’s my opinion, anyway.
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Thanks, Kitt! I agree totally. Of course, fuckable minds are the very best: the only true sex, worthy of the name, there is.
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